Among my four boys, Carmelo is the one who is the most- er, emotional. He is Chopard Fake the most affectionate son, the one who likes to get - and give - hugs and kisses, but he is also the most prone to outbursts and tantrums, especially when all four are playing together and he isn't happy with how the game is going.
That is why, when I entered him in preschool last year, it wasn't without any trepidation. I was concerned that he would be as iyakin in school as he is at home. So, you could just imagine my surprise when he got the award for most behaved! (Not that I wasn't happy about it.)Well, it did not come as a complete surprise. Whenever I talk to his teacher when, like on days when I drop him off, Teacher Joy always says that Carmelo sits in his chair. He doesn't run around a lot like his classmates do. But still, most behaved? As it turns out, I am not the only parent who gets a jaw-dropper at parent-teacher conferences. According to Teacher Krissie Zamora-Martinez, research and curriculum development directress of the Montessori De Manila in BF Homes, Las Pinas, this behavioral inconsistency may not be rampant, but it does happen. "It is not so common but there are children who are like that," she says.There are several reasons why a child may be an angel at home but a whirling devil in school. She enumerates some reasons why: "There may be a difference in the home and school environment, and in the first weeks after school starts, there may be a period of adjustment. In the first few days, the child may still be feeling his way around. But he will come out of his shell later on. It may also be that the child is not yet socially and emotionally ready for school."She continues, "For kids who are quiet at home, it may be that the parents are too busy and the child is not the center of attention. So, when they go to school, they seek attention from the teachers. Because, if they try to be active at home, the parents or the caregivers may suppress or downplay that." In my case, where my child is more behaved at school, she says that there may not be enough structure at home, and my child may respond to the structure in the school setting. Upon reflection, I now realize that my house is like a free-for-all kiddie party place with four boys, and I do need to set more rules and regulations. Teacher Krissie next emphasizes the need for constant and consistent communication between parents and teachers. "There are parents who talk to their child's teacher only when it is time to get the report cards. Even more difficult is that there are those who assign the yaya or even the older sibling (who may even be in grade school himself) to get the cards. This usually happens when the child is in the higher-grade levels as parents are still nakatutok in preschool years. When Fake Concord Watches the child gets older, parents think that the child can already handle school by himself. It would be hard to relay information about the child's behavior to a caregiver or another child."It is really best then, she suggests, if parents regularly talk to the teacher assigned to the class to find out whether their children are exhibiting positive or negative attitudes, excelling in a particular area, or needing more guidance in a particular subject. If the child is having behavioral difficulty at home, it can be followed up in school, and LV Jewellery vice-versa.Making a mergerHere are some tips shared by Teacher Krissie so that parents will gain more behavioral consistency.Talk to teacher. If a parent finds the key to a child's good behavior at school (like for my son: more structure), then he/she can reinforce it at home. Teacher Krissie says you can tell your child, "Teacher says you are very polite in school. You can also be polite to yo
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